Did you take a page from my book? My line, “I can do it myself.” Watching my dad’s example. But until a month ago, that fortitude took a beating and I’ve lost my ‘I can do it compass’. First time. If I can make it to the sofa after getting out of bed, that’s progress. I’ve had to step back and recalibrate my lists and plans. Tough juice to drink.
Thank you for this. It popped un the middle of a workday, where I do a job I have no aptitude for and provides no sense of purpose. I loved my dad, and he taught me similar things. I am happy to be thinking of him right now. And I also don't know whether the "toughness" I got from either of my parents was a gift or a burden. I don't know how to see myself, but I know how I saw my dad, and I am glad to have been his daughter.
I’m glad it resonated with you. I catch myself praising my kids for being tough without thinking (they really are!) Then I always lamely follow up with, “But you don’t have to be!”
Yes! My ex-husband & I used to say where the heck did these independent, stubborn children come from? Oh yeah, the gene pool with both us independent & determined if there’s a desire to get something done.
I often joke our father, the Command Sargent Major, Jump Master ruined me for mortal men. "Oh you can't rebuild a carburetor with a coat hanger, field dress a deer, cook for 15 or more for fun?" Made his two daughters stubborn and/or determined in the best possible way. I have shared exactly what you described, fierce love wrapped in pride. The relentless gift of a father's unshakable belief in you. Thank you and Tell your Dad I said Happy Father's Day.❤✌😉
Holly, thank you for your tribute to your dad. I felt his presence as I read and I felt yours. I cried not out of sadness but out of recognition that this is your truth and this is love.
Did you take a page from my book? My line, “I can do it myself.” Watching my dad’s example. But until a month ago, that fortitude took a beating and I’ve lost my ‘I can do it compass’. First time. If I can make it to the sofa after getting out of bed, that’s progress. I’ve had to step back and recalibrate my lists and plans. Tough juice to drink.
Very tough juice. Sending love.
Thank you for this. It popped un the middle of a workday, where I do a job I have no aptitude for and provides no sense of purpose. I loved my dad, and he taught me similar things. I am happy to be thinking of him right now. And I also don't know whether the "toughness" I got from either of my parents was a gift or a burden. I don't know how to see myself, but I know how I saw my dad, and I am glad to have been his daughter.
I’m glad it resonated with you. I catch myself praising my kids for being tough without thinking (they really are!) Then I always lamely follow up with, “But you don’t have to be!”
Yes! My ex-husband & I used to say where the heck did these independent, stubborn children come from? Oh yeah, the gene pool with both us independent & determined if there’s a desire to get something done.
I often joke our father, the Command Sargent Major, Jump Master ruined me for mortal men. "Oh you can't rebuild a carburetor with a coat hanger, field dress a deer, cook for 15 or more for fun?" Made his two daughters stubborn and/or determined in the best possible way. I have shared exactly what you described, fierce love wrapped in pride. The relentless gift of a father's unshakable belief in you. Thank you and Tell your Dad I said Happy Father's Day.❤✌😉
"The relentless gift of a father's unshakable belief in you." Exactly this!!
Yes. Mine was part of “The Greatest Generation, as well as The Madmen era.”
Keep on. No one needs it categorized, and your dad- he’s a shining example!
Holly, thank you for your tribute to your dad. I felt his presence as I read and I felt yours. I cried not out of sadness but out of recognition that this is your truth and this is love.
a beautiful read.....thank you for sharing so openly and honestly---touched my heart.
I love this and you both! Give him a hug from me💕
Wonderful thoughts.
Beautifully and heart fully written!
Love this and you.
I love this. And you and your dad.
Beautiful !
Always so, so good. 💗